About Hedy

Hedy, along with her husband Steve, own and manage a small flower farm in beautiful Cape May, NJ. They focus on growing artisanal, seasonal, hard-to-find, and heirloom blooms using organic and sustainable methods. They also make and sell kimchi using organically grown cabbage and other vegetables.

The Number Is Smaller Than We Think

Ten years sounds like a long time. Ten visits does not. A story about a father counting the number of times he might realistically see his parents again made me rethink how we measure time. It also made me think about my own children, aging parents, and even farming. Sometimes life isn't measured in years. Sometimes it's measured in visits and seasons.

The Weekend My Kids Came Home—and What I Missed

The kids were home for the weekend, and I thought we were making the most of our time together. We shared meals, went about our days, and settled into familiar routines. But as they packed up to leave, I realized something important had been missing all along. Sometimes the busiest part of life isn't what steals our attention—it's the habits we don't even notice

A Gourmand, a Rabbit, and a Flower Farmer Walk Into a Kitchen

When both of our kids came home for the weekend, the farm felt a little fuller—and the kitchen became a lot more complicated. Between picky eaters, apartment hunting in New York City, and the daily challenges of growing flowers, I found myself reflecting on how often flexibility matters in both farming and life.

The Flowers That Bring Us Back Home

Certain flowers have the power to instantly transport us back to childhood gardens, loved ones, and special moments in life. In this heartfelt story from our Cape May flower farm, we reflect on how flowers create memories that stay with us for generations and why visiting a local flower farm is an experience everyone should have.

Why I Decided to Take Up Golf at This Stage of Life

After years of constantly building, fixing, and trying to stay one step ahead on the flower farm, this spring feels a little different. Between blooming peonies, morning walks through the fields, and a slightly unexpected decision to take up golf, I’ve been thinking a lot about hobbies, slowing down, and learning how to enjoy the life you worked so hard to create.

The Peony Trick Most People Miss

Peony season has arrived at the farm, and there’s one simple harvesting trick that can completely change how long you enjoy them indoors. In this post, I’m sharing the “marshmallow stage” secret flower farmers use, why ants gather on peony buds, and why bringing flowers inside might be one of the simplest joys of spring.

The Part Nobody Talks About After Mother’s Day Flowers

Fresh flowers aren’t meant to last forever — but with a few simple care tips, you can enjoy them much longer. In this post, Seashore Flower Farm shares easy ways to keep flowers fresh naturally, why farm-grown flowers evolve in the vase, and how to enjoy every last stem throughout your home.

She Planted Them… and By Morning, They Were Gone

A beautiful garden, a fresh planting… and then overnight, everything changes. A quiet, all-too-relatable story from our Cape May flower farm.

Cape May Flower Farm Mindset: Building a Successful Flower Stand

What do you do when something you’re building feels like it’s not working? A real story from our Cape May flower farm on mindset, persistence, and what changed everything.

A Middle Child, a Mechanic, and a Field Full of Flowers

Spring has arrived at the farm, bringing fresh blooms, planting season, and a few lessons learned the hard way. From opening the flower stand to sharing a behind-the-scenes look at farm life (and a very handy mechanic in the family), here’s what’s happening right now at Seashore Flower Farm—plus upcoming workshops, U-pick experiences, and seedling pickups.

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